Strategies for Managing Difficult Co-Parenting Situations
How do you deal with difficult co-parents? Hi, my name is Carl Birkhead. I’m a Tulsa family law attorney with Wirth Law Office in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I’ve been practicing family and criminal law for almost eight years now, and I want to help you make law easy by talking about what to do when you’ve got a co-parent that you just cannot get along with.
I often handle cases where one side is impossible to communicate with, cooperate with, or work with. It’s incredibly frustrating for my clients, who find themselves dragged back into court over baseless filings. If you’re in this situation, I truly feel for you. But what can you do?
Practical Steps to Stay Compliant
First, make sure you’re following the court order to the letter. For example, if you have primary custody and the other parent has a set time for phone calls, be on time. Even being a few minutes late can trigger contempt actions. Stay on top of visitation exchanges, and always pay child support on time—if possible, even early.
I know nobody’s perfect, but the better you stick to the court order, the less ammunition the other side will have. I can’t make your co-parent reasonable or a good co-parent, but I can help you navigate this in a way that puts you in the best position possible.
Seek Professional Guidance
If you’re struggling with a difficult co-parent or an unworkable custody arrangement, don’t hesitate to give me a call. My name is Carl Birkhead. I’m a Tulsa child custody lawyer at Wirth Law Office and I want to help you make law easy.
Reach Out for a Low-Cost Initial Strategy Session
Contact me today for a low-cost initial strategy session to discuss your unique situation and explore your options. Call 918-879-1681 to take the first step towards resolving your co-parenting challenges efficiently and effectively.